WEDNESDAY, Dec. 22, 2004 (HealthDayNews) -- Elderly people with impaired memory or behavioral problems may feel uncomfortable at large holiday family gatherings, but there are ways to include these people in such celebrations.
According to Dr. Daniel Sewell, director of the Senior Behavioral Health Unit at the University of California, San Diego, Medical Center, you need to plan ahead. If a person is vulnerable to overstimulation, you should limit the activities at family celebrations or the length of time that the person is included in those celebrations. For example, don't let a holiday meal go on for hours.
Sewell also recommended that you establish a quiet room in your home. This will let the person get a break from all the activity and have some calm.
Schedule a naptime for the person, especially if he or she is used to daily naps.
Assign a family member to act as a companion to the elderly person to monitor how the person is doing and to make sure they feel comfortable, Sewell said.
If you're holding a family get-together at the home of the person with memory impairment or behavioral problems, don't rearrange their furniture. This could cause the person anxiety and confusion.
Other suggestions include:
More information
The American Academy of Family Physicians has more about age-related memory loss.