(HealthDayNews) -- Those who contemplate the circumstances of their own death can't be faulted for making sure that their wishes are honored.
Unpleasant as the thought may be, preparing for such an eventuality by asking someone to be your proxy -- to make your health care decisions when you no longer can -- could be the greatest gift you could give your family and friends -- and yourself.
Letting nature take its course isn't a pleasant prospect when the dying person is suffering, in a coma that's not likely to lift, or brain dead. A proxy with whom you've discussed this scenario can work with your medical team on decisions aimed at reducing your pain, supporting -- or ceasing support for -- treatment that's merely sustaining your life, but not bringing you closer to recovery.
Your choice of a proxy -- potentially a very difficult, emotional job, should be carefully considered. Will he be able to even discuss this with you in a calm, reasoned way? Will she be able to commit her time when your 'time' is approaching? Do you want to name more than one proxy 'just in case'? Do you choose a friend or a family member?
Consider your options well -- but do consider them.
